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"Riding the Waves" - "The Wave Riders.com™ Newsletter" ISSN 1708-038X
October 2006 ©TheWaveRiders.com™



"Reactive people are also affected by their social environment, by the "social weather." When people treat them well, they feel well; then people don't, they become defensive or protective. Reactive people build their emotional lives around the behavior of others, empowering the weaknesses of other people to control them."

"The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" by Stephen R. Covey.

Welcome to the "Riding the Wave - The Wave Riders™ " Newsletter. http://www.thewaveriders.com

What can you do today?
by Indigo Irwin Kennedy

Lately, I have been reading the book, "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" by Stephen R. Covey written back in 1989. One of the habits that he talks about is our ineffective habit of reacting to daily events.....in other words we become, if we are not careful, "emergency driven". The phone rings we react, there is a knock at the door and that sends us in one direction, perhaps we have to fix something or pick someone up. Then an email comes in and we feel the need to answer our friends. All of a sudden the day is gone and what we feel in our lives to be really important has not been nourished, nor attended.

Rarely do we take the time to really determine (during our mid-wave cycle) what it is that is really important in our lives. As Wave Riders, we are prone to being pushed and pulled through our days by waves of emotional energy...go high and we are doing everything; go low and we don't want to do anything.

Stephen Covey (p147), suggests to be effecitve in your life start by writing down the answers these questions:

Question 1: What one thing could you do (you aren't doing now) that if you did on a regular basis, would make tremendous positive difference in your personal life?

Question 2: What one thing in your business or professional life would bring you similar results?

There was a second part to these questions. Most of us, he pointed out do the "Urgent" things each day, like answer the phone, fix the leak, get a new photocopier, but we don't make sure that the "Important" things get done each day.

I would like to reemphasize the importance of being MID WAVE when you are analyzing what you want in your life. If you are not then you will be analyzing from either an overly optimistic or pessimistic view. When we create in our lives we first what to be balanced with our middle self. This is the self that really knows what you truly enjoy in your life.

I think that these two question are worthy of our time. Once you have answered the questions write down how you can implement a few minutes each day on something "important" rather than just the "urgent"

I hope that you will be able to accomplish that which is "important to you" each and every day.

Around the heart, past the mind and into the soul.
Enjoy the journey
Indigo

Indigo Irwin Kennedy
Author: The Wave Riders
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